5 Great Qualities To Look For In A Partner

When we first start dating someone or begin to have romantic feelings for someone, it may not be easy to pinpoint the exact reason why you feel this way. Maybe you love their laugh, confidence, or sense of humor. Suddenly, you find yourself daydreaming about holding their hand and wondering what it would be like to spend more time with them – we’ve all been there. 

Regardless of what it was, something had you absolutely hooked. Once you move beyond the casual flirting/dating phase and into something a bit more serious, you may also find yourself becoming more observant of your partner’s behaviors –this is great.

The more time you spend with this person, the better you come to understand how to handle them and what makes him or her tick. However, there are definitely a handful of qualities that we look for when it comes to a serious relationship. 

At a certain point in life, we stop just wanting a fun, casual fling, and start wanting both the fun and the stability of a partner.

Here are 5 great qualities to look for in someone you see yourself getting serious with:

1. They Can Handle You At Your Worst

   
   

We all have our moments. By this, I mean that we all have our good days and our bad ones. We’re only human and it’s normal to occasionally be moody. However, even your worst mood doesn’t seem to phase this person. Of course they’re bound to get annoyed at times, but they seem to know just what they want to do or say for you.

Whether it’s giving you some space or just the opportunity to vent, they’re there for you. They understand you’re a human being and can see beyond a trivial bad mood, or small fight. 

2. Willingness To Try New Things

   
   

A willingness to try new things is a sign that things will rarely be boring. This is the type of partner who will always be suggesting a new place to eat, activity to try and places to travel to. 

Their desire to explore the world will end up rubbing off on you, and encourage you to expand your horizons. Doing new things together is also a great way to constantly build, connect and bond in your relationship.

3. Constant Interest In Learning

   
   

Similarly to trying new things, a constant interest in learning is an amazing quality. Sometimes people stop pursuing knowledge beyond what they already know, so being with someone who actively seeks new and intellectual information is someone who will keep your mind sharp. 

Their love for learning will also influence you, and you may end up finding a new interest, hobby or passion because of it. 

4. They Make You Laugh

   
   

I think it’s fair to say, we probably don’t know anyone who doesn’t like to laugh so a partner with a great sense of humor is a major plus. They’ll be able to cheer you up, lighten the mood and generally just make you smile. 

A sense of humor, in my opinion, is one of the best characteristics someone can have.

They just have a way of making everything seem less stressful and can help you see the brighter side of things when you need it most.

5. They Bring Out The Best Version Of You 

Lastly, this person is someone who brings out the best possible version of yourself. When you are with them, you are at your happiest, calmest and most confident. Your partner should make you feel like the ultimate-super hero version of yourself and nothing less.

One of the best ways to evaluate these characteristics is to monitor how you feel when you’re around them. Do you feel very self-aware, or are you relaxed? Is it easy for you to let your guard down, be silly? 

You and your partner should both make each other feel unstoppable. 

Again, we all have different qualities we admire and pursue in a serious relationship, but these five are definitely a few, among many, that are great signs. 

The more positive the relationship, the more healthy it is and the healthier your relationship is, the happier you will be.